1. Purging.

    By the end of this week, my divorce will be finalized As I prepare emotionally and energetically, I realized I had unwitting reminders in my physical space that needed to be released. The final divorce decree is the symbolic end of an era of my very existence. Not simply the marriage, but an entire life of being driven by survival. Specifically, in my previous business model. I kept all the Black …Read More

  2. Breathe Fire

    Solo Performance Virtual Launch Party! Live Stream Monday, Oct 14th,2019 6pmPST/7pmMST/8pmCST/9pmEST December 8, 2017, I prayed a prayer that imploded my life.  I discovered I had benign fibroid tumors that were pissing off my kidneys and needed to have an emergency hysterectomy.  I had a happy marriage, my health, and a thriving million-dollar business that has grossed over $5,000,000 in less t…Read More

  3. Feeling better.

    I cleaned my closet. I’m taking one moment at a time. Being open to God’s will for my life. Making room for prosperity in the form of experiencing being taken care of holistically: financially, mentally, spiritually, emotionally and sexually. My new business buddy, Kisma Donna Orbovich, asked me what I wanted last week and shared my desire to experience love in the form of tangible care. Sinc…Read More

  4. I’ve Been Bleeding.

    (Well-Being Update) I’ve been spotting. I went to a new GYN doctor in San Diego and she was great. She said she needed more data to say why I’m bleeding. She thinks it’s I’m still healing. She said not to worry. I’m not worried just disappointed. We ordered all of my records from my bio-identical hormone doctor and my emergency hysterectomy doctor. I have a follow-up in two weeks. I wash…Read More

  5. The Raw & Real Series: (God Says It’s Time)

    My former spouse and I settled our divorce yesterday.      There are details and final paperwork—but it’s done. I am no longer married.      I also had to let go of amazing people. I am retiring Defy Impossible. When I said it was the end of an era, I meant it.      I am starting over.     Not from the ground up.     No.     On the…Read More

  6. The Raw & Real Series: Out with the Old …

    This is going to sound crazy, but it’s true:  When I was on the streets, my best friends were not people. They were books.  Reading allowed me the chance to transport myself into different worlds. And they were safe. Reliable. My constant companions.  It might sound weird, but I am still very closely emotionally bonded to my books … even more so than people, sometimes.  And so I carried my…Read More

  7. The Raw & Real Series: Trusting Me

    I’m about to move!!  Sunny San Diego is about to be my new home, and I confess … as excited as I am for my new beginning, I have been in denial.  I’ve been busy—busy doing all the things required for a big, life-changing move. I’ve been so caught up in getting everything in order, that I haven’t been able to just BE with the fact that this is a TOTAL life change. So all of the sudden…Read More

  8. The Raw & Real Series: Dragons Breathing Fire

    We're breathing fire in my new Facebook community, y’all. O-M-God. I'm in love!!  I love my dragons. I love my dragons. I love my dragons!  We have a whole community of them now (over 300 people joined with ZERO marketing), and they are HUNGRY. There's a fierceness about the people who are attracted to Breathe Fire (that’s the name of this group). These are successful, conscious entrepreneur…Read More

  9. The Raw & Real Series: Breathe Fire

      When a woman speaks her truth, she breathes fire. A fire that burns down the lies Scorches through façades and Lights up the dark nights living in her soul. When a woman speaks her truth She b$tch slaps shame, regret, and self-sacrifice. Her tongue becomes a flame. Her voice, gasoline. She spits truth like red-hot embers burning down Generations of "making it work," "Making do," and "overc…Read More

  10. The Raw & Real Series: Feeding My Soul

    I’m excited.  And a bit nervous.  Everyone knows me as Doctor Venus, the Millionaire Mentor. And if you’ve been following my blog, you know I’ve been struggling with what to call myself, ever since the emergency hysterectomy turned my world upside down.  I'm starting fresh. I'm starting new. I'm starting from a whole different place. I’m starting over.  I have a new brand—a new direc…Read More