Solo Performance Virtual Launch Party! Live Stream

Monday, Oct 14th,2019


December 8, 2017, I prayed a prayer that imploded my life. 

I discovered I had benign fibroid tumors that were pissing off my kidneys and needed to have an emergency hysterectomy. 

I had a happy marriage, my health, and a thriving million-dollar business that has grossed over $5,000,000 in less than six years.  

But all that changed with a single authentic prayer.

“God please take whatever’s in the way, out of the way, to fulfill my destiny.” 

I never thought it would be my marriage.

I never imagined it would be my body.

And I had no idea it would be my million-dollar business.  

But it was.

After I had my emergency hysterectomy, I could see how my self-hate from my childhood (I was living on the streets, eating out of trashcans, and sleeping in piss by 16) had me trapped in a life where I had made it out and was “successful” but still playing it safe and small.

And as I struggled with being bedridden from the hysterectomy for one year—two, if I didn’t rest—, I confronted that I had spent my entire life people-pleasing, keeping the peace and buying love. I had created a gilded hell that was hidden beneath success, red bottoms, and fake lashes.

 And if I didn’t do something soon, I was going to start hurting myself with food, sex, or alcohol–like I had before.

 My way out of my hell was telling the truth. Not the polite, socially acceptable truth. 

The raw, shame-driven secrets that kept me silent. 

The dreams I thought I was too old to do. 

The desire to be swept off my feet, fu&ked REALLY well and cherished by someone who wanted me but didn’t need me. (P.S. And who had more than I have, so I could stop always picking up the tab and carrying mother!@#$%^!) #realtalk

I couldn’t say it but I could write it.

But here’s the real and raw truth that cracked my heart wide open: I missed dancing. 

I wanted to free again. 

And being rich was tearing me down. 

All the hustling, grinding, slaving, chasing clients, marketing, etc. was making me sick, tired and lonely.

Then the truth, my truth revealed itself. The truth that was buried beneath staggering success: I wanted to be an artist.

I wanted to be on HUGE stages and make my living by speaking, performing and writing. I had poured more into nurturing other people’s dreams than going for my own. I have always wanted to, but I was insecure and felt inadequate. Who’s going to pay to hear my Word, to see me do my thing? Was on repeat in my heart of hearts. So, I created a boobie prize life of success. 

What I created was great—but it wasn’t my destiny.

The more truth I told the more I healed emotionally, mentally, spiritually. And the more my the “people-pleaser” life fell away like metal shackles. The more my real and raw authentic life arose, manifesting in very tangible ways.

The more I shared the truth, my truth, the more I was willing to breathe fire and let motherf&ckers deal with it and let the chips fall where they may. 

The more I healed, the more I manifested the life of my dreams…dreams I had given up on. 

The truth will set you free but first, it will annihilate the house of cards call your life.

My marriage ended.

My body broke down.

My multi-million dollar business tanked.

This annihilation was the answered prayer. It was my God doing some gangsta God sh*t to set me up to fulfill my destiny. After the rain, comes the sun.


I have a new C300 convertible Benz.

Happy (my bichon puppy)  and I live in a great condo in Downtown San Diego that has the most beautiful sunrises.

I have over 10 million in assets as well as a new private marketing practice.

As the highest-paid destiny-driven niche marketing expert, I transform conscious revenue positive top-performers and market leaders into a category of one in the marketplace so they become the highest-paid leader in their industry, live fulfilling lives, and leave a legacy that transforms the world.

And (here is the best part!) I am touring my solo performance nationally.

Simply put I am creating a life that is not rooted in the past of people-pleasing, self-sacrifice, or shame.

And it all started from me telling the truth.

That truth comes to life on stage in my solo performance:

Breathe Fire

Solo Performance Virtual Launch Party! Live Stream

Monday, Oct 14th,2019


The truth, your truth is the key to YOU fulfilling your destiny.

I am happy, healthy and whole. I am prosperous, affluent, and fulfilled.

I am self-expressed, erotic, and spiritual. I. Am.

All because I was willing to tell the truth, my truth and let it go to work.

I doing this live stream so you get all the “real and raw” details that created the self-hate and how I used it to set myself free. For those of you who have been with me THROUGH IT ALL (and I thank you!) you get the chance to complete the journey with me. It will be almost a year from the day of my emergency hysterectomy. I would love to come full circle with you.

I also want to SELL OUT the house!! If we sell-out the house—I will take the show on tour!! The good news it’s there are only 300 total seats (100 per show), so I know it’s possible. But I can’t do it without you. 

Save this these dates: (MLK Weekend 20/20) Jan 17, 18, and 19, 2020 in Santa Barbara, CA.

Whew! God is faithful and this is happening! I love you and I thank you in advance for supporting MY dreams. It moves me to tears that you would love me enough to come see me do my dream. Thank you. 

Dr. Venus

P.S. I love you and I thank you in advance for supporting MY dreams. It moves me to tears that you would love me enough to come see me do my dream. Thank you. We will sell-out the Breathe Fire Solo Performance on our live stream Oct 14th at 6pmPST/9pmEST. Because you signed up, you will get the 1st invites! 

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  1. Belinda

    Wow Dr.V you are a beautiful amazing genius and thank you for sharing your journey. I too was diagnosed with uterine fibroids and live beneath a veil of people pleasing and doing what others think I should do. I have been on #TeamNatural in regards to healing my womb but I know deep inside true healing will only come with releasing those things that do not serve me and boldly standing in my truth no matter what other people may think of my choices. Excited to see the next level of your greatness! Peace & Blessings 💖

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